Guys Giving Guilt

If a guy tells you that he is upset that you cannot visit him one weekend, yet he never makes the effort to get in his car/catch a train to see you--guess what---HE'S NOT THAT UPSET. Maybe he is annoyed that he will have to find another girl to keep him occupied that weekend, but if this same individual has not bothered to call you daily, find a way to travel 3-5 hours to see you, and has not asked you to go steady (haha) then this guy is not that devastated that you got sick and cannot visit him. Anyway, Do you really feel like visiting a guy who is more upset that you screwed up his weekend plans than over the fact that you are ill?
Girls need to stop believing that their inability to fall all over a guy one weekend/night/afternoon because of unforeseen circumstances (illness, family death, natural disaster) is the reason that he won't commit to them. If you find yourself practically begging a guy to be your boyfriend, checking your phone 35 times in case the call somehow went right to voicemail because you went through a bad cell phone zone, or apologizing to him on a regular basis because you were not completely available to him, then you need a reality check.
When a guy is really interested in you, there is nothing for you to wonder about. You will not obsessively stare at your phone because it actually will ring once a day, with his voice on the other end. He will tell you that he likes you, and he will never EVER be too busy to at least send you a "hello" text or call to make plans for the upcoming weekend. Think of how many times a day in your busy life you manage to send an email or a text or a facebook message. Who in the world is so busy that they cannot manage to eek out a message to a girl that they think they may fall in love with?!!!!